What Seems Like An Ending May Be My Best Start
A certain number of years will pass and I will die. That may be my final end, but until then every day will be the sum of the great life story : a story that I want to live and that is made up of many other stories marked by moments, feelings and experiences that begin and also end. .
This is how everything begins and everything ends. The experiences overlap and none leaves me indifferent, because they have the necessary duration to give me what they should and then leave. The worst thing I can do in this regard, I have always known, is to continue to believe that something lasts when it is over.
Only if I accept the end will I believe in the beginning
Assuming that giving up is not an option is one of the premises that I have always remembered the most. In this context it seems appropriate because it is just at the moment in which I have realized that I am accepting that something has ended when I have felt the most that I had not given up.
It is not an option to believe that reality is not what it is: I force myself to accept that there are people who are leaving or that I can leave, that there are cities that I have to leave behind or that something that was can no longer be. In other words, it is not about starting from scratch but about learning to be who I am and who I can be.
Even though incomprehension cuts through this laughter, I can still laugh
The misunderstanding when the time has come to finish something has caused me insecurity, disorientation and pain: we all see each other in labyrinths, located right at the exit door, but without the keys that allow us to leave and continue.
In those moments I, like everyone else, did not see anything clearly and the endings seemed to extend in time without definitively ending. I have realized, only when I got to the bottom of what was happening, that I had to take control of my life and be the one to make an effort to completely close that unfinished ending.
Resilience capacity is what supports us and helps us to look at ourselves reflected in the well to learn from what we see. In this way, even though misunderstanding may have cut off my laughter at times, I have discovered that I can still laugh: despite the fact that everything is lost, I can find myself again.
An ending is a chance for a new beginning
After all the efforts, I have overcome my endings and with them my past: I have understood that an end is the opportunity to relive another beginning. You can do it too. You can remind yourself when you need that similar idea that in order to give yourself a new day you have to have seen how the night passed.
Every day is an opportunity to be your best start in any field or to maintain what makes you happy. We must never lose the certainty that from bad times we draw strength that we did not think we had and rebuild values that were stagnant.
Time and events go hand in hand with change and people also change with it. We grow and learn from the mistakes that we make and that they make with us, we live and dream of the happiness that we collect and contribute. Therefore, an end can be my best beginning, your best beginning.
